Tanya and Andrew Marry at the NAC

By Rev. Alan Viau
Photos by Trending Media

Ottawa’s National Arts Centre is another gem location in which to get married. Tanya and Andrew held a wedding in the round during a blustery winter day. No matter the weather, it was a perfect day for them.



Winterlude is Ottawa’s festival celebrating winter. There are many activities and things to do; skate on the Rideau Canal, eat a Beaver Tail, admire the ice sculptures. Certainly, one advantage for me was that I parked at the Ottawa Convention Centre and walked on the canal to the National Arts Centre for the wedding.  I thought it was pretty neat to do that.

But no matter, February 1st is winter and getting from the limo to the entrance was a challenge that just  can’t be accomplished gracefully. After all you must keep the wedding dress looking perfect!


Le Salon is a perfect venue in which to perform a wedding in-the-round. I’ve officiated many weddings there in this format. In-the-round is a wonderful configuration because it brings everyone closer to you for a more intimate feeling.


Tanya and Andrew selected a wedding  that underscored their religious beliefs. Like many who choose to have a wedding in a non-faith venue, there are still strong ties to the past. So I performed the candle-lighting ritual and a recital of the Lord’s Prayer for them.


They certainly looked happy! Congratulations to you both. I left soon after the ceremony to head down to the Courtyard Restaurant for another wedding (next week’ story). But from what I can tell – it looks like they had an awesome party!




My Favorite Wedding Dresses of 2013

By Rev. Alan Viau

As with many other people, the end of the year is a time of reflection on what was 2013. There were four wedding dresses worn by brides for whom I performed weddings that stood out in my mind. Each was a superb choice for the woman who wore them.

Disney Princess: Her dream was to be a Disney Princess. Stunning as she walked down the aisle, it even took my breath away. Yes, she married Prince Charming.


Naturally Her : The dress fit her unique personality – a yoga teacher who loves nature – flowers all around.


Perfect Fit: A dress that fit her perfectly and extremely romantic. Her groom was in joyful tears seeing her walk down the aisle in this McCaffrey Haute Couture dress.


Just Her: It can be a daunting challenge to find a wedding dress for your second marriage. This bride was gorgeous in her choice of gown. Elegant and beautiful.


I am looking forward to what 2014 will bring.

Top Tips for Buying Your Wedding Shoes

In terms of wedding couture, we all know that the dress steals the spotlight.  But you can’t forget that essential factor to complete the look – the shoes!  You would think with long wedding dresses that shoes wouldn’t be an important focus, but think again!  So many images are including, and even showcasing the bride’s shoes.  Short dresses  and high slits are also increasingly popular, giving all the more reason to find some amazing shoes for your big day.  You may think finding your dream shoes will be easy, but there are many things to consider – style, comfort, value…so here are a few tips to get you started.

First, think of the date of your wedding, ceremony location, and venue.  What type of shoes would be most comfortable?  Are you spending most of the day outdoors walking on grass or stone?  Very high heels may not be the appropriate choice.  Think about what height you are normally used to, and try not to go for something way out of your comfort range, especially on a day when you will be constantly on your feet.

Match your wedding colors and theme.  If your decor features an accent colour, that would be perfect for your shoe choice.  Your wedding bouquet colors would look fab with a similar color in your wedding shoe – it makes everything blend and go together nicely.  For themed weddings, there are countless shoe ideas.  You could have a lot of fun with this one.  You can find amazing shoes to match a vintage, beach, or bohemian wedding theme to name a few.

What season are you getting married in?  Many brides may not consider this, but in the middle of winter the last thing you want to walk around in are slingbacks or slip-ons. Your feet get can very cold, so find a shoe with a bit more coverage.  Perhaps a popular wedding boot for your pics, and then you could change into a pair of sexy shoes for the reception.

An important tip when trying on shoes is to remember that your feet will swell by the end of the day.  Shop for your shoes in advance and remember to wear them around the house every so often to break them in.  The last thing you want is to take your shoes out of the box for the first time and encounter blisters along the way.

One last tip, probably the most important, is to bring a second pair of shoes with you as you near the end of the night, preferably a flat, slipper or one you have worn for years.  Just like an outdoor wedding, you always need a back up plan.

Happy Shoe Shopping!

Very Superstitious

Something blue sewn onto a Vera petticoat

As you prepare for your wedding day, invites, flowers, guests lists, and scheduling are always top of mind. But superstition also plays a large part in a bride’s big day. Here in the US the, “Something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue” rule is commonly put into practice. Lets review some of the nuptial rules and traditions of brides around the world. Which ones will you keep in mind as you get ready to say “I Do”?

– English lore says that a bride will have excellent luck in marriage if she finds a spider in her gown on the day of her wedding.

– In ancient Rome, a bride’s veil was meant to disguise her from evil spirits who, jealous of her happiness, would try and do her harm on her wedding day.

– Greek cultures insist that the bride tuck a sugar cube into her glove before tying the knot so as to make her marriage all the more sweet.

– One Indian matrimonial fable states that if a cat eats from the bride’s or groom’s left shoe a week before they are to be wed then the two will have great luck in marriage.

– Unexpected rain showers are commonly associated with wedding disasters, but according to Hindu tradition it is in fact a sign of good luck!

Content derived from the Vera Wang Blog, Vera Unveiled

Fall 2013 Bridal Show: All About Lace

Content derived from the Vera Wang Blog, Vera Unveiled
Photography: Dan Lecca

The 2013 Fall Bridal Collection reflects an exploration of laces all hand-wrought, pieced, appliquèd and tossed onto an assortment­­ of light, airy confections with a casual nonchalance. This study in femininity and romance celebrates the wedding gown in a new take on classicism and ornamentation

Look 1: Strapless mermaid floating lace gown over web lace with horsehair and tulle shrug
Look 2: Strapless corded bodice ball gown with lace and organza wave flange skirt. Floral corsage at hip.
Look 3: Draped tulle and Chantilly lace bodice ball gown with crystal and organza embroidery details
Look 4: Strapless modified ball gown with ribbon embroidered bodice and textured organza skirt over honeycomb crinoline. Silk organza hand rolled petal collar at neck.


Look 5: Strapless draped tulle bodice ball gown with crystal embroidery accented by floating pleated detail at the hip
Look 6: One shoulder drop waist classic lingerie inspired ball gown with hand pieced organza petal details and floating tulip and rose lace accent.
Look 7: Floating corded leaf and embroidered circular lace strapless mermaid gown with bias organza and lace flange detail accented by crystal and pearl cluster embroidery at hip. Basketweave silk gazaar corselette under bust.
Look 8: Corded leaf lace over web lace modified mermaid gown with hand appliqued lace accents and English tulle and horsehair flange at train. Silk organza hand rolled petal corsage at neck. Silk organza corselette at waist
Look 9: Strapless micro flange bodice modified ball gown with silk organza and mixed lace wave flange skirt. Blossoming hand rolled organza petal corsage at waist.
Look 10. Strapless floating tulip and rose lace ball gown with open back and classic corset detailing
Look 11: Stretch mikado mermaid gown with floating tulip and rose lace overlay accented by table pleated organza rosette skirt.
Look 12: Strapless modified ball gown with Chantilly lace bodice accented by organza petal and pearl embroidery with hand draped textured organza skirt over English tulle wave flange detail. English tulle and horsehair ruffled collar at neck.
Look 13: Floating Chantilly lace ball gown with bias organza and tulle wave flange detail. Basketweave gazaar bralette with classic lingerie details.
Look 14: Tulip Chantilly lace mermaid gown with hand pieced circular flange train and mum garden hemline. Silk organza mum and tulle corsage at neck.
Look 15: Strapless ball gown with ribbon embroidered bodice and silk organza floating flange skirt accented by lace applique detail at hem.
Look 16: Strapless drop waist modified ball gown with corded leaf lace bodice and swirling bias cut table pleat flange skirt. Silk zibeline corselette at waist.


Walking Down The Aisle – Wedding Shoes

How to choose the shoes (or do the shoes choose you?)

Courtesy of the Ottawa Wedding Show Blog

Though with a long dress, veil and train almost no one will ever really see your footwear it is important to consider what shoes make the best choice for a bride to wear on her wedding day. Never select the shoes to wear on your wedding day until you have chosen a wedding dress. The shoes should be in keeping with the style of your wedding dress, i.e. if your dress is traditional or formal your shoes should be also. If you are being married on a beach then perhaps more of a fancy sandal look might be appropriate.

The height of your shoes is very important. If your wedding dress is floor length then you want to be sure that whatever the height of your shoes is your dress still touches the floor. Once you have selected your wedding dress it is a good idea to try your shoes on with your dress while you can still have alterations made to the dress. If the shoes make the dress too high then you may have to reconsider your selection of footwear. If your shoes end up being more flat and the dress is dragging on the floor then your dress can be altered and likely hemmed up.

The biggest consideration when picking out shoes to wear for the big day is comfort. If your wedding is in the morning or early afternoon, followed by photos, cocktails, reception and dance you could be standing on your feet for more than 12 hours. That is why comfort has to be the biggest consideration but you can still find very comfortable shoes that are still fashionable. Depending on the material of your shoes some will naturally be more forgiving and comfortable than others. Many bridal shoes are fashioned out of a plastic base with silk and lace attributes to coordinate with the dress. Real leather is by far the best choice as not only does it breathe but it will stretch and accommodate your feet if they swell later in the day.

The height of your heel will also contribute to how comfortable you are feeling by the time the dancing starts. Many a tall bride has to consider the height of her shoes if she is as tall (or taller) than the groom. One of the most comfortable shoes in this case is white ballet slippers. The trick to having really comfy ballet slippers (more so than with other shoes) is to buy them ahead of time them and wear them often inside while doing things that won’t scuff or mark them (like watching TV). Over several weeks the ballet shoes will become like slippers and your feet will feel great for the big day even into the evening and dancing.
Some brides want their shoes to match the shoes of their attendants. Something to consider when choosing shoes would be if these will be “one use” shoes. Your attendants may want shoes that are leather-like (as opposed to silk/satin) and classic styling allowing them to use them on other occasions.

When selecting your shoes to wear on your wedding day, go shopping late in the day when your legs are tired and your feet a little swollen. Shoes selected at the end of the day are a much better fit than shoes selected in the morning when your feet are the least swollen. The right shoes will mean that you will enjoy your wedding day because when your feet are tired and/or hurt it wrecks everything even the most perfectly planned day.

Trend Alert! Wedding Dress Trends

In 2012, we have seen a lot of bling on wedding dresses as well as big skirts. These ornately embellished skirts sport ruffles, beaded belts, flowers and/or lace. Many of the most striking wedding gowns shown at New York bridal shows featured skirts that were not only voluminous, but also had very heavy embellishments.

Here are the top six trends in bridal wear for fall:

1. Ruffles. Ruffled wedding gowns are still huge. From ball gowns to trumpet gowns, there is every kind of ruffle you can imagine — horizontal, vertical and torn-looking, even some that look like tumbleweed. These can be great for every body type, with some terrific styles for curvy brides!

2. Flowers. Oversized three-dimensional flowers are one of the most impressive accents in the fall 2012 and spring 2013 wedding dress collections. While the concept has been shown in previous years in a few haute couture lines, the detail will be much more widely available in wedding gowns across all price points.

A gown with huge flowers on the skirt would be stunning for a spring or summer bride. For brides who want an embellished skirt that is a bit less exuberant, look for gowns that are accented with delicate flower petals. The petals are usually created from lightweight organza and flutter gracefully all over the skirt. This is a delightful effect for a garden wedding. The slightly more subdued effect of the three-dimensional petals will be sweet for a petite bride who might find herself overwhelmed by one of the oversized flower appliquéd skirts. After all, it is always more important to find a wedding gown that suits the individual bride than it is to adhere slavishly to trends.

 3. Beaded belts. Look for more gowns with beaded belts and accents at the natural waist. This is a great detail to have on a plus size wedding gown because it helps to create structure and a focal point on the body.


4. Lace. What you’ll see mostly are fantastic lace trumpet wedding gowns. They are fitted through the bodice and thighs, have a generous skirt and are covered in lace.

5. Pleated organza. Another take on the oversized embellishment trend is large concentric circles of pleated organza. Brides who know their wedding history will be reminded of the famous bridal gown worn by legendary bride, Jacqueline Bouvier, when she wed John F. Kennedy. The design is updated with light organza, which helps to keep the gown from being too heavy. The three-dimensional design on the skirt is usually balanced with a simple strapless bodice with shirring. The shirring is just enough interest to hold up to the eye-catching design of the skirt without competing. A strapless neckline looks best when it is enhanced with dramatic handmade wedding jewelry.


6. Tiered skirts. Tiered skirts with plenty of volume are also a key trend. The tiers are often done over very full skirts, and can be used with either a natural waistline or a mermaid cut gown. Further accents in the form of appliqués and beading on the tiers are also part of the look. Truly, there is no such thing as “too busy” for the upcoming season of wedding dresses. Crystal beading is particularly favoured with the tiered skirt gowns, and lends itself to being paired with handmade crystal bridal jewelry for the wedding day.

There will be plenty of other fabulous new wedding gown trends on the horizon for spring 2013. Watch for them.

Behind the Dress: Joy

Strapless collapsed A-line gown with veiled chantilly lace bodice and organza scallop skirt.

I like to think of this dress as the good witch of my collection. It’s a gown that just floats, airily and totally dream-like, but with a structure to all that lightness that defines the shape in a way that every bride dreams about.

What I love about this dress is that it combines the best aspects of two classic bridal silhouettes, the mermaid and the A-line gown. It’s cut very close to the body, just like a column, grabbing the body very tightly around the waist and hip and cinching in at the back. Then there’s a very rigid, strapless corset bodice with visible boning that is covered with a chantilly lace applique and veiled with asymmetrically-draped tulle. That gives it a beautiful sense of movement, almost like a brushstroke.

But for all that figure-hugging structure in the top half of the gown, the skirt itself is quite soft. It’s made entirely of floating organza scallops, all veiled with tulle as well. What is especially seductive about this dress is a slit in the front skirt, ever so slightly hidden behind layers of tulle. You can see just a hint of leg—not too much, because the slit doesn’t go all the way up—but it still has a very flirty, fun, whimsical feel to it. After all, my philosophy has always been that ultimate seduction is in what you conceal, not reveal.

From the nude laces, to the tulle, to the cor

set boning: all of these elements are very reminiscent of the seductive beauty of fine lingerie. You can see why I find it such a provocative inspiration: it brings to life what’s out of sight, but only through fantasy and suggestion and playfulness. And that’s so stirring to the imagination.

Get the Look – Katrina

Are you in love with Katrina’s wedding style? If you want to get the look then add small touches of sparkle to your outfit with a belt or jewellery. For florals, think beautiful pastels in classic flowers such as roses. Katrina liked to treat her guests, so along with breathtaking fireworks, don’t forget to indulge them and appeal to their sweet tooth with a delicious candy buffet; it’s a must.

Make a plain dress sparkle

Katrina’s dress is accessorized perfectly with a statement sparkling belt. This Vera Wang, a-symmetrical charcoal Swarovski crystal, set on an ivory grosgrain sash from The White Dress, will beautifully dazzle your guests as you make your grand entrance to walk down the aisle. If it’s good enough for TV’s Khloe Kardashian, then it is certainly good enough for the sophisticated Ottawa bride. For more information: thewhitedress.ca or 613 680-9024.

Sweet love

Candy buffets are a huge trend right now and this wedding had one to wow guests. Jelly beans, bons bons, sugared almonds, gummy bears – is your mouth watering yet? Take a look at The Candy Store. They have a huge array of sweet treats and will provide you with a tasty and eye-pleasing bar. What better way to say thank you! For more information: thecandystoreottawa.ca or 613 728-7500.

Say yes with a diamond

Katrina says she loves her Simon G engagement ring. Who wouldn’t? If you are gushing over her style, then head to La Maison D’or. The stunning ring from the Passion Collection is an incredible piece. If you are looking for big and sparkly, or something a little understated, you will be able to find it here. For more information: diamondtv.ca or 613 837-1001.
Vintage floral

You have the beautiful white dress that you have always dreamed of, lots of glistening accessories, the guest list is complete and food is looking good. Now you need to think about the flowers. No outfit would be complete without a gorgeous bouquet. Katrina opted for pale pink just like this one from Trillium Floral Designs. If you are looking for something similar, then try mixing the pink with other pastels, like peach and white, for a fabulous old vintage look. For more information: trilliumfloral.ca or 613 599-6849.

Touch of colour

If you want to step away from the bling, then think traditional, like pearls. Add a touch of colour to your outfit for the fall with these earrings from MaiYa Pearls. They are handmade with blue fresh water pearls and would make the perfect bridesmaid’s gift. MaiYa has so many other amazing ideas and specialize in both saltwater and freshwater pearls with the majority selected directly from pearl farms in Asia. They are the best in pearls! For more information: www.miya.ca or 613 482-1290.